Perfectionism and Procrastination

Perfectionism and procrastination can go hand in hand, but not always. When you are a perfectionist, you want everything to look right and be right and show the best of yourself to everyone you meet. There are lots of different ways to be a perfectionist. Sometimes it...

The Need to be Real

Don’t you think there is always a need to be real in life? Sometimes people portray something of themselves that isn’t true. You can see/hear/read the falsity in what is shown but it feels impossible to get into their reality. Personally I hate seeing posts that...
Baby loss awareness month

Baby loss awareness month

Photo courtesy of Vinelrapy This month of October is baby loss and breast cancer awareness month. They can impact men, women and children and both of them bring heartbreak in their wake. For me, I suppose you would say that baby loss has impacted me more than breast...

When Fear Stopped Me

This week I was reminded of a time in my past when fear stopped me. And I mean physically stopped dead in the middle of the road. I was standing there crossing the street and stopped in the middle waiting for the traffic to be clear. As I was standing there, I...

Authenticity in your life

Today I want to talk about authenticity. To be honest with you, I really didn’t have a clue what to write about today at first. Yesterday felt totally full on with everything that happened. It was a real curveball and I was unable to do anything I had intended on...

What is your passion?

This has been a question for me for SO long – what is my passion? I have been getting to know things I liked but didn’t actually know what my real passion was. I love doing creative and making beautiful things. But it didn’t equate to lighting that fire of...

Boundaries for your life

Physical, mental and emotional boundaries are an important part of our lives. Without them, immense damage can erupt in our lives, hearts and minds. When a child is little, you put up boundaries in their life to keep them safe. Things like gates appear in your home so...
Conformity or not?

Conformity or not?

Conformity can be such an easy thing to do, makes you appear to be like everybody else and you get the “benefit” of being accepted into a certain group – maybe but not always. Going with the flow is much easier than saying “no” and being different. There are...